" Love doesnt need to be reciprocated. its not possessive but its considerate"
read this from one of my frd's msn and has some touts to it. it is easier said than done. recently few of my good friends have encounter some r/s problems.. much as i want to help, i can only be an listening ear. more often than not outsider can only be an listening ear, to give some opinions and to offer some advises.. ultimately is up to individual to decide what he/she wants to do... it is difficult to comment much as if one didnt go thru it one wont know the situation well. but it oso doesnt mean that if one went thru it, one will be able to give advise as everyone is an individual with different emotions, feelings, touts and maturity..
personally i tink i am a good listener at least i listen not hear... most of the pple hear but nt listen.. some frds will come to you when they are sad and need pple to tok to but yet when u r down they are nt able to listen. is nt their fault some pple are juz born to hear not listen.. or they might be too overwhelmed by their own problems.
true friends only come in when u r at the lowest and downest moment in ur life.
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off tdy, had a difficult case last sat, forced to leave a morning auto. i have trusted the manager on duty to do a follow up as i have explained the situation to him. at least i tout he's willing to help but i forgot there's something called MC. of coz i know pple do get 'sick' esp if is in btw off days. if i was working tdy, i would have handled the case myself coz i felt i can do a better job. i am so pissed that for a moment i really felt disgusted. now i know my theory is always correct. is better to do things urself than to ask pple, we have to depend on ourselves. no wonder he's so willing to take on the case though is damn troublesome. now i know...
i hope i wont get a complaint coz of this manz. i have done my best. juz as wat joe said, getting complaint is like drinking water~
Posted at 10:46 pm by flogal
